WHY DO WOMEN IN NIGERIA AND IN OTHER PARTS OF THE WORLD REMAIN IN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIPS?.( MY PERSPECTIVE)

There are 14 Reasons why women in Nigeria and elsewhere remain in Abusive relationship. I. They don’t want to be stigmatized.That is they don’t want to be judged or pressurized by others. They want their self esteem to remain intact . It is not because the sex is good.The sex is actually a “Forced sex …

LESSONS THAT I LEARNED FROM COVID19 PANDEMIC .

Hmmmmmm what lessons did I learn from COVID19 PANDEMIC ?. ●The Number one thing that COVID19 thought me is to be healthy and take really good care of myself. ● It thought me to appreciate simple things that I have always taken for granted such as the air we breathe. ●It thought me that life …

MAKING UNHEALTHY RELATIONSHIP HEALTHY.

“Love is patient, love is kind,it does not envy,it does not boast,it is not proud.It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking,it is not easily angered, it keeps no records of wrongs “- 1 Corinthians 13 4-5. Do you have these numbers?. 1.Alignment of communication.That is communicating in agreement. 2.Caring, 3.Compassion. 4.Respect.Respect is reciprocal. …

NIGERIA PLEASE COME BACK.

Come to me. Come back to you. Back to us. We must not be recolonalized. By East. By the West. They should keep those Fingers away from Nigeria. You are our parents. We miss you so much. We got no other parents. But you Nigeria. You are our hope and strength. Our cries must not …

HAPPINESS.

Pleasure and contentment. Happiness, glad I found you. Not rich but feel lucky. You don’t get jealous Because I will be happy. It bubbles from inside out. I try to suppress it. Don’t know the framework for happiness. Important in my life. Or the psychology behind happiness. I smiled without a good reason. But feelings …

WHY HATE.

Hate sounds bitter in my mouth, for so long ,long time. Lived with strong hatred, Have no reasons to do so. But my mother said so. Why feel intense for them. Why find her distasteful. But it became part of me with time. It beckons on me to hate. Hate with great intensity. Wasted my …

LOVING YOU.

Loving you with the fiber in me. I have given you everything. Including my heart. What will I get in return. Nothing in return. There are no winners here. I don’t want my heart to continue to bleed. I deserve better than this. But how long can I wait. Time is of essence. Don’t break …