- The hardest decision I have ever made is getting married. I kept rejecting suitors because I was afraid of the unknown and didn’t want to sleep with any man until marriage. I finally after many years of conviction from doctor F.N.,and my parents preaching to me . I accepted the first him to start the first step. Then my best friend visited and I told her about him.She advised me not to marry him because of age difference of fifteen years. So I didn’t marry him.I became frozen and continued to reject anything called a man until my husband came. I refused him but my father said that he is tired of me rejecting suitors and that I must marry my husband. So I did.
2. Why was it difficult decision for me to make?.
I was very comfortable in my father’s house and I wanted a relationship like my parents. The only person that actually got the standard that I wanted was the man who was over fifteen years older than myself.

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I have learned that there are no perfect marriages, you just have to make a commitment to make it work out well for you .