Some questions can be unpleasant but it is an opportunity to reevaluate yourself and learn or make changes. However,there are some questions that can be very annoying in my opinion.And these questions, I do not do well in my response.
The questions that I hate to be asked are as follows:.
1.How old are you?.If you ask me this question you will not get an answer from me because you are not an employer .Why do you want to know my age?.It is an irrelevant question in my opinion.
2.The second question is where are you from?.My response depends on my mood.If I am not in the mood you receive the name of any country that I could remember.Why are you asking?.I see that question as discriminatory because you are not immigration personel or homeland security officer.I rather answer the question of are you a citizen? . Which will be yes or no.
3.The third question is when are you due to deliver?.To deliver whàt?.Even though I am not pregnant I will reply you with what you want to hear and that is the date of delivery. I will deliver my baby next month.I find it offensive because you are fat shaming me for been overweight.🤣
In all of the three questions the most annoying one is when are you expecting?.Expecting what ?.I gained a lot of weight long time ago because I worked lots of hours, did not have enough sleep.So I compensated with foods.
As a result of that I gained weight and this lady suddenly came from no where , touched my stomach and asked for my due date.I told her next month.And continued walking around .However her question made me to stop and think about what she said.I later loose some few extra pounds that I gained two weeks later.
Conclusively rather than hate the questions and the questioner/ messenger use it to make positive changes in your life.

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😆 Recently, I got ID’d. I’m like, uh I’m 40 you know. But yeah, I’m now sporting some grey hairs, and I’m not even trying to hide it. It is what it is. They can ask away.
As for what country I’m from, I do not get offended when asked ☺️ again, it is what it is!
Nobody is purely from one country, really. So yeah, ask away! I find it funny when people try to guess, even people from the same country as I am! 😆
As for weight… Well… I do need to lose more. Might help with my insulin resistance! Might help me come off the meds.
You’re right! It’s all about perspective and contemplating why questions are being asked. Taking action!
Thank you for this post 👍
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