There are so many things that bothers me my list is plenty but the specific one that came to mind is ” feelings of entitlement “.
Why should you feel entitled to what does not belong to you?.
Dangers of entitlement. Feelings of entitlement tears siblings apart. It prevents brothers and sisters from getting along and loving each other because of fear of entitlement. They love you because of the provision that you are making for them.The very moment that you become incapacitated they stop answering your calls.
Insatiable wants. They want their children to go to private school and you must pay for it.They call you for their rent payment,hospital bills and every single expensive needs.
Lack of contentment. There is a statement that says “cut your coat according to your size”. These brothers, sisters and close friends will never cut their coats according to their sizes. They dress more than you that they are extracting money from. They turn around and mock you that you are not fashionable. You can’t eat your cake and have your cake.Go work hard,plan,set goals, save, invest and make your money. Her money is not your money it is her money. Yes you can make. And for your information he or she is not guilty of your predicaments.
Adult Children/ Siblings. Adult children feelings of entitlement. They are not entitled.You worked hard to get to where you’re they should work hard to get to where they want to be in life. You struggled working two jobs and investing,saving, budgeting and God answered your prayers. They should do the same. All you need is to provide emotional support good words of encouragement. A chicken cannot produce a goat it reproduces baby chicken.π meaning that you should work hard to get what you want out of life.You have graduated from college get a job and keep a job or have a business and maintain your business. If you didn’t go to college learn a trade.Stop the feeling of stupidity known as entitlement. You’re not entitled.
Dishonest.Most of these close relatives that are feeling entitled will not lift up a finger π for you.You asked them to supervise a project it is time to steal from you. They will steal so much from you that the project becomes “abandoned project “.
Hiding information from love ones.You tend to hide good news from your siblings because they will feel offended for your success. “Hmmmmm he claims not to have money but he is building a house”. So you hide away this peace of joy from your brothers and sisters because of their feelings of entitlement.
What made you entitled?.
Think π€ about it?.
Absolutely nothing. Are you thinking?.Let us get along.
Don’t misunderstand a kind gesture. If you are getting favors from your relative or a friend it is not ENTITLEMENT but a PRIVILEGE.


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YOU ARE NOT ENTITLED SO BE APPRECIATIVE AND LOVE A GENEROUS GIVER. https://www.nursesyoumoveme.com
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